How To Make One Night Stand Into Relationship?

One Night Stand Relationship

You’re at the bar or pub with a bunch of girlfriends, and you have a bit too many. You see a super cute guy sitting a few tables down, and he looks at you and smiles. You get butterflies as he walks over to say hi. Next thing, you’re back at your place with him, and the rest is history.

The next morning, part of you feels guilty for having a one-night stand with a guy, but you felt a connection with him. You wanted that connection to continue. So what do you do? How do you turn that one night stands into something more meaningful? Well, I’m here to help!

How to have a one night stand?

If you desperately want to hook up with someone you will never talk to again, you need to think about a couple of things before doing it.

1. Ask about STI

It should never offend someone that you are asking. People should respect it. If they don’t, then maybe you shouldn’t be sleeping with them in the first place.

2. Make clear yourself

The second thing you should think about is why you want to have a one night stand in the first place. Is it for pleasure? Is it because you want to be intimate with someone without getting emotionally attached because you are not ready to get emotionally invested in anyone?

It’s important to do a deep dive on what you’re looking for in this experience, and that way, you’re more likely to find it.

3. Prepare yourself

Try to ensure that you look good and smell well. Brush your teeth, band hair. You can be prepared like a boy scout, but you’re scouting women.

  • Don’t look desperate.
  • Strike up conversations around the bar.
  • See who you connect with and who you don’t.
  • Walk her in and then make out with her after getting consensual eye contact. See and invite her back to your place.
  • Don’t get her, phone numb

Remember, this is a one night stand, and you never want to see her again. You need to stay focused here. This is a key part to making sure it never becomes anything more than one-night stand, but a lot of laying down but less standing than they advertise. After you’ve partied the next day, find your profile on Instagram so you can confirm that she was attractive, as you remember. Swap through all of her pictures and figure out which ones are the best so you can brag to your friends when you show them this one.

4. Take time

What are you even doing waiting for a reply? It would be better if she didn’t reply and you never heard from her ever again. Then snap into consciousness, realizing you’ve unconsciously been looking at your Instagram, waiting for a message in your inbox. Put your phone down and walk away from it, realizing you’ve become incredibly addicted to it.

5. Be an attention seeker

Go for a walk and then realize you left your apartment without your phone and your keys. Now you’re stranded. You wander your neighborhood endlessly. You’re in her neighborhood. You’re at her front door. Then, ring the doorbell.

6. Behave politely

She looks super angry when she answers the door. Then you realize that she wrote you back, but you never wrote her back because your phone is locked in your house. Explain the situation you accept when she invites you in. You’re on a roll.

7. Eye contact with a smile

Get lost in her eyes and the way she smiles. Realize you never got a good look at the way her face brightens up when she laughs. Get thrown off completely when she brushes your hand lightly while giving you another beer. Run your hands through her hair. Pull her close to you. Embrace her tightly. Realize that no possible scenario could have played out any other way.

You are destined for one another. You are meant to be together, and you cannot escape your fate. Make love to her. Kiss every inch of her bare body, breathing every second of connection.

How to get into a relationship with man after one night stand?

Can a guy like you after one night stand? The answer is, yes, he can, but it’s a very fragile situation. With less than a 50% chance that it will work long term. However, if you seem to be into him, you have nothing to lose to try. At the end of the day, if it doesn’t work out, you can look at it as a learning experience.

How to get into a relationship with man after one night stand?
How to get into a relationship with a man after one night stand?

So let me give you the scenarios of one-night stands, and I will tell you how to behave so it works out the best way for you. Keep in mind that they will have the same answer on how to behave after. However, its likability to work out will differ from that situation.

1. Make sure you build a connection outside the bedroom

Make sure you’re fun to hang out with when you aren’t naked. Keep the tone light and funny and engage in many intellectual conversations. Pique his interest by showing that you’re funny, smart, and easygoing. To build a bond that lasts, making him like your personality is key to keeping his attention and building a possible relationship.

2. Make sure the sex is good

The first night of sex is rarely the best sex, but if the chemistry isn’t there, you’re going to lose his interest. The best way to ensure that he keeps coming back for more is to know that he is performing well. In most cases, that’s the only thing a guy craves after the first time you have sex validation that he’s good. If he feels that you’re giving him this respect, he’ll be coming back for more.

3. Do not get clingy

It can be hard, especially if you like the guy a lot, but men are super sensitive to this right after a one night stand. Especially if he’s an attractive guy. During the morning after, offer to help clean up if it’s his place, then politely be the one to bow out. Please don’t give him any clue that you’re looking to overstay your welcome. Just make sure you get his number!

4. Don’t talk about the future

After a one night stand, emotions are high, and when emotions are high, it’s easy to talk about the things that are bugging you. But do your best to resist the urge to talk about anything serious. Treat the situation in a calm, fun, and light-hearted way. Remember, you’ve met! There’s a lot more hanging out to do before you take it to that level.

5. Give him some room to breathe

After you leave, you don’t want to bombard him with text messages. You want to set up another date and see him again, but in his mind, he’s already won the proverbial race. He’s slept with you.

For him to chase you, you’re going to have to create a bit of mystery. You want to make him wonder if you’ll ever sleep with him again or if you thought that it was a mistake. Dropping this psychological bomb on him is the very secret to getting him to think about you and chase you down for a date.

6. Let the situation rest for a day

If he doesn’t contact you within 24 hours, send him a light-hearted text message. You don’t want to sound too aggressive, and you don’t want to make it seem like you want to be friends with benefits. Leave the ball in his court to see if he wants to pursue it any further. Alternatively, you could send him a funny GIF or comic to break the ice then start a fun conversation from there. Don’t push for anything too serious keep things fun for now.

7. Don’t sleep with him again right away

This is a mistake that a lot of women make. Once they sleep with a guy, they feel compelled to sleep with them immediately. You want to ensure that the guy has something to chase and fight for at the beginning of any relationship. If you’re giving it to him too easily, he’ll lose interest and eventually leave. Make things interesting by playing a little hard to get from time to time.

8. Observer him

Maybe he was fun, charming, handsome. You felt weak in your knees, and it happened. Now how do you behave after? You act normal, stay calm and collected, fully charge your emotions, and keep it casual. He is not your boyfriend, and it was fun. If he’s interested, he will get in touch again. Stay casual, do not let your emotions take over. Let it flow naturally.

9. Give him space

If you pursued him before having sex and after you seemed aloof, this might create intrigue for him. He might pursue you after because he’s feeling intrigued. Yet, if he does approach you, it will most likely be for sex again.

Ladies, the time that having a one night stand where you are the one approaching the guy can potentially work is if he can’t get the girls himself, or he feels like you are out of his league. So, he might feel lucky to have you as he can’t get you himself.

10. Feel his freedom

You’ve been friends for a while, and it happened. Now, this could work. If you again stay calm and collected, control your emotions and let him pursue you after. Ladies, you let him lead is crucial. Otherwise, he will feel pressured, controlled, overwhelmed, and turned off.

11. Hold on to your control

He asked you out, and you went on a date, maybe on a first, second, or third date, later it happened. I would say this is a 50/50 chance, as it depends on how much he was truly into you during those dates. Was he also the one asking you out and pursuing you for it? Was he trying to get to know you and was into what you care about? Or was he charming you to get the cookie?

It will be very difficult not to lose control if you are already emotionally involved. Especially if he tries to play some games on you, and you are still not exclusive. It’s a simple rule in life. Nothing that comes easy is valued or appreciated.

12. Think of it yourself

Do you appreciate things that come on a plate for you? Sure it can be fun for a bit, but it does not have a value of something you have been investing your time over and over again and energy to get. It’s the same thing, ladies. However, I would say give it a chance on the bright side. Don’t lose hope. It does work out sometimes if you nail at every single detail.

How to get into a relationship with woman after one night stand?

In this age of Tinder, both men and women are looking for hookups. For that casual sex now, most of the population is looking for this no strings attached type of relationship and is rarely searching for true love. However, there are testimonials of a long-term relationship that initially started as a one night stand.

How to get into a relationship with woman after one night stand?
How to get into a relationship with a woman after one night stand?

Now, there is currently no verified procedure for turning your casual one-night stand into a serious relationship, but there are some ways to try your luck. As a man, the risk is worth it. So it is a complicated situation, but with the right strategy, you can turn your one night stand into a long-term relationship.

1. Keep it playful and sensible

You had a wonderful time, and you also know she had mad fun with you. But you want to take this to the next level, and you need to keep things light with her. You are the man who makes her feel like a woman. You have already hit the jackpot on the first night, so you know how to press her buttons, be witty and playful, and charm her. This is all made to keep her thinking about you.

2. Invite her to a dinner

The more she thinks about you, the more important you will start to mean to her set a dinner date. It is important to have a dinner date. This is mostly because you might get the chance to take her home afterward. You might think this ensures ar-fetched, but spontaneous sex is thrilling to a woman, and it keeps her thinking about you. Keep the thrill on.

3. Be confident but less forthcoming now

There is no reason to be afraid of this situation. Having had the first night together with a girl gives you the upper hand, so be confident. But don’t be a creep. Be gentle with our opinions of what she thinks about this entire sex thing.

If you get the chance, give your views in a suggestive tone, but don’t push it. It might only throw her off now. This way, you will think of the possibility of what it would be like if she considered dating you. Don’t be a jerk. Now you had a life before you met her, and you should respect that as she has a life as well.

4. Be impressive

It makes it less impressive if you keep blowing her phone for a booty call. Now she’s not your sex toy, so keep an interval where you have to contact her. If she turns you down, don’t act out, and you’re still in that transition stage.

So be intelligent enough to know that you still have a chance to change your mind. Therefore, make sure that these few times you get with her, you treat her like the queen she is, and she will start looking forward to seeing you. Also, respecting her boundaries is key, and never forget that.

5. Keep a positive vibe

You may notice she’s jealous when you talk about other women, and you’ll realize that she’s interested in pillow talk after sex. She wants to know about your day and what’s going on in your life. If that happens, then this is the most awaited moment, and to hint about getting serious, you can also begin the Pillowtalk, certainly talking about yourself. For instance, you can start by asking her to stay the night if she hasn’t slept your morning in your place.

This creates a good impression of how you treat her. You can prepare some breakfast and create the opportunity to ask her a few things about herself. You will have gone a long way in making her feel special. If she feels that YouTube has maybe something special, not sex, then you might have a chance of asking about an actual date and becoming a couple. All you need is to play your cards right and keep in mind that you can win her as your girl. Keep an open mind and keep a positive vibe. You might have a chance.


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Patricia Lyon

Hi, I'm Patricia Lyons, a relationship advisor, consultant, and author of this blog. If you have problems with your relationship or marriage life then this blog site is only for you. Our experts explain every relationship issue and fix the problem with practical experience. We also provide you the love stories, poems, SMS to make your relationship healthy.

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