How to flirt with a guy? I’m going to teach you how to flirt so you can attract almost any man that you could ever want. I’m going to tell you that the 40 tips work very well. Sometimes they work too well because I’ve been using all the thieves and baby. I got more men chasing me than I know what to do.
These ways are useful when you are trying to attract someone who’s got masculine energy. If you can’t tell, then I am Dr. Nicola, who works with lots of feminine power. My learning techniques have been developed specifically to attract and engage those types of susceptible and alpha types. So if you’re looking to attract someone with masculine energy, then you’re in the right place.
Flirting with a guy is one of the sweetest memory and moments in a girl’s life. It’s a very romantic way to make a relationship or married life. Actually, flirting is a pillar of your new relation or family life. So it’s essential to know about the best flirting techniques that you can win someone’s heart.
Most people don’t know about the proper way to flirting and ruin their chances to achieve someone. Before flirting with someone, you need to know about human behavior, mental condition, physical attraction, biological change, etc. If you want to convince a man, you need to study man and their physical and mental characteristics to win him shortly.
40 Secrets Ways To Flirt With A Guy
Dear sweet ladies, you are the unique gift for men who are eagerly waiting to catch you. You want to make a satisfying relationship with your crush or favorite guy. This is not very difficult because men fall in love quickly, but they don’t understand it timely. As a woman, you need to make yourself a superwoman who can easily hack any guy’s miny.
So I’m here to help you and teach you the best ways to win him or make him your boyfriend. I’m going to give you 40 simple ways that you can do to flirt more with the guys you like.
1. Compliment Him Regularly
The first way that you can flirt with a guy is a compliment. It’s all about how you compliment him. The problem with most compliments is that most people do it the wrong way. You don’t approve of your friend the same way you compliment someone you have a crush on.
Let’s say you like someone, and you want them to appreciate them with your compliment. You want to say it. You want to compliment specific things about them. Think about it like this. If you want them to appreciate your compliment, compliment them on something they understand about themselves. How do you know if they know that thing about themselves?
For example, if someone was born with beautiful eyes, they didn’t have to work hard to get those eyes unless I got some eye surgery. If you compliment someone on their eyes, they’re going to say thank you. But they’re not going to appreciate it.
Let’s say they love basketball. It’s their passion. Since they were a little kid, their dream in life is to play in the NBA. If you compliment them on how good they are at basketball or respect how passionate they are about that, they’re going to appreciate that compliment more. Because that’s not just something, they were born. Does that make sense like little compliments? They go a long way for these things.
2. Do Physical Touch
If there is a guy that you’re sitting next to and you don’t like him. You become a ninja when it comes to avoiding touching him at all costs. You’re sitting next to a creepy guy in class who you’re not into. His elbow almost rubs up against yours.
You turn into Neal from the matrix and scene where he’s like dodging 20 bullets at once. You have no issue avoiding touching him at all. When it comes to a guy you like, don’t be afraid to break that touch barrier. Once in a while to show, “Hey, I don’t think you’re a creepy guy sitting next to me,” and if you’re not sure when to touch him.
You don’t want to be like in the middle of saying “hi” and then stroke his face. It’s not what I mean. Let’s say he says something funny. He makes you laugh. You laugh and then fall into his chest. That’s going to be cute, and obviously, you’re not going to do that with who sits next to you in science class.
That’s not going to happen, and the reality is if you ever want to be intimate with someone with who you like, you have to break that touch barrier. The longer it takes for you to touch the guy physically, the more build-up pressure there is for you.
When you finally do feel him for the first time, it makes him more comfortable with being around you if you touch him first. We don’t want to be the first. We don’t want to be that creepy guy who touches you first. When you touch him first, it’s a better way of you subconsciously communicating, “Hey! I don’t mind when you touch.”
3. Be A Funny Girl
It isn’t something you have to say, but it’s all about smiling and laughing every time you’re around him. I don’t know if he is not the funniest guy in the world. If he’s making jokes, even if it’s not that funny, just laugh a little bit. That’s all. That’s all you got to do.
Well, if it is not funny, in that case, you shouldn’t laugh too much. Because you don’t want to like encourage someone who’s not funny to make worse jokes. I’ve noticed that when you give someone a fake pity laugh and think they’re funny, but they’re not, their jokes end up getting worse.
I’m going on a tangent about someone specifically in my mind. Anyway, Why does it just bring so dark in here? I was weird in reality. If you like the guy, everything he says is probably already funny. Even if it’s not, you probably don’t even need that. But the point is when you’re talking to someone, and you’re smiling.
When they’re talking, you’re laughing. When they say funny things, you’re showing them, “I like it when you speak to me. You make me feel good ” When a guy thinks that, he makes a girl feel good. He wants to make that girl feel better. It makes him feel good to make her feel
4. Tease Him Effectively
I’m going to say definitely by far the most effective way to flirt with a guy. It’s also the hardest to do appropriately. Because when you do it right, it works well. But if you do it wrong, it can turn the guy off. It’s one that I talk about a lot to Attract Academy.
It’s all about teasing a guy that you like. When you’re teasing a guy, basically what you’re saying is, look, I’m comfortable. I’m friends with you, but I’m not impressed yet. You got it. You got to convince me a little bit more.
It’s such an attractive place to come from because this is literally how you go from being acquaintances with someone to close friends. The Sooner you can start teasing them, the sooner you’re going to be good friends with them.
I was teasing her about something she said or something about her. Instead of her trying to defend herself, she goes, “Oh, come on!” But it wasn’t like angrily. It was one more like she was smirking as she was saying it.
We were both laughing as we were talking about it. I am not saying you should go up to every guy be like this. It’s not generic. It’s a specific cut time that you can tell. There are particular things you can apply to tease a guy to turn them on instantly.
5. Challenge Him Romantically
The next way to flirt with a guy is challenging. It is kind of similar to teasing, but it’s a little different. It’s all about challenging him what you’re saying when you challenge him. I get it. You think you’re fantastic. Prove it to me.
For example, let’s go back to basketball. He loves basketball, and he’s talking about how much he loves basketball. You’d be like, “Wow! That’s awesome! The problem is I could probably beat you one-on-one.” I’m just saying can you beat him one-on-one probably. That’s not the point.
It’s not about you challenging him and being severe. It is like, “Let’s put some money on it. Let’s go!” It’s about everything you’re saying being half-joking, have serious half teasing, not caring about his reaction. It’s about you being fun and flirty, being carefree. When you give that little challenge to him, that’s when you create a little bit of sexual tension between the two of you. Getting sexual attention is like one of those keys to getting attraction.
6. Ask Interesting Question
There is no such thing as a terrible question, and if you’re good at asking quality questions, they’re going to give you significant answers. The better the reply, the better quality of a connection you’re going to have between them.
Think about it like this. The more emotionally connected they are, the answer to the question would be more accurate. They’re going to feel to you. If I’m telling her something close to my heart, she will become closer to my heart.
7. Play With Your Hair
If you play with your hair, it’s flirty. It seems very natural when you’re talking to a guy you’re playing with your hair. Because I feel like a lot of girls, do it. It’s not just something that is a flirt tactic. It’s something that girls do when they’re bored.
If you be all cutesy and your little hair flips, it adds that cute factor. Boys love this! So, work that hair! Don’t do excessive because it looks terrible habit. Do it when you have a good mood and make it more genuine.
8. Maintain Unique Dressup
Always draw attention to your body. I don’t mean showing off cleavage, show off those boobs, or very short shorts. Show them off by as it is. Let’s say you’re like having a conversation, and you’re just like dropping hints a little bit. Don’t make it obvious. You’re talking. You’re moving your lips. It seems natural.
But don’t make it obvious. You can tell when someone’s looking at you from the corner of your eye. If you couldn’t know he’s looking at you, play with your lips a little bit. I feel like it’ll just make you look more cute and attractive. You could also do it. You can bite your lip. But this one, it’s like a hit or miss for people.
You can make it look so natural like, let’s say you’re thinking and you’re biting your lip. Some people make it look good. Some people don’t. Another thing you can do is like rubbing your shoulder. Let’s say you like your attorney. You guys are talking about massaging your shoulder.
Instantly that eye contact of his goes to your shoulder, and then he’ll think, “Wow, awesome!” You know, how some schools won’t let you wear like spaghetti straps. That is why shoulders are sexy to me. For some reason, I don’t know why I hate it. Because some girls want to wear spaghetti straps to school, and they can’t work because of those stupid dress codes.
9. Call Him By Sweet Name
It is a good one that I tend to use. It is about using names while communicating. It is charming. Let’s say this guy you like. His name is Bob. You’re like, “Hey, Bob! Did you get to number three?” It makes him feel more connected to you, and it just brings up that intimacy with each other.
I don’t feel like I never make sense. It can go with verbal communication like face-to-face and with texting. If you’re texting, “Hey, What’s up!” you can say, “Hey Bob, What’s up!” That ‘Bob’ that you entered makes a big difference to him. So using his name will go a long way.
10. Do Eye Contact While Talking
I know a lot of people don’t make eye contact. I do not make eye contact unless someone is physically talking to me. When I’m walking through the halls, I look down or look another way. I hate looking at other people’s eyes as I’m walking through the gallery. I hate making eye contact with people.
I feel like it’s so awkward. I don’t know why, but if I do happen to make eye contact with girls or with the guys, I like to do that quick little smile. Because I feel like it’s awkward sometimes, if you’re talking to a guy you are attracted to and trying to flirt with him, you must make eye contact with him. You show him that you’re interested in him.
All your attention is towards him. If you’re talking to him and you keep on looking down, it could tell him that you’re not interested in him. You instead put your attention to something else. It does not look cool. It does not give them the message.
It also can give off that you’re a shy girl, and you like want to talk to him, but you’re like, “I can’t stare at you. You’re too beautiful” It can go both ways. I think it’s just easier for the guy if you stare at him. It sends the message right away. You’re attending towards him, and you’re really into him.
11. Make Him Feel Special
Let’s say you have a class with this guy and you’re in English. You don’t talk to many people in English. You hate English. It is just an example. By the way, he’s like sitting next to senior like, “Hey! I’m glad you’re in this class. I’d be dead without you in here.
You’re the most interesting person in this class.” It makes him feel, “Wow! She likes talking to me. She’s cool. She digs me” It’ll send him messages that you like him as a friend, and maybe that friend can lead to something else. It is a bonus. That is challenging him. Let’s say that you both are into soccer. You can tell him. I bet you could beat you at your own game even though that you’re pretty sure you can’t. It makes you seem cute. Then he’s thinking in his head.
12. Give Him Kiss
The best flirting strategy is called the ‘kiss me now’ strategy, not to be used when you don’t want him to kiss you. It is a strategy at the end of the date. You want to let him know that you like him. You want him to move in for the kiss. You don’t want to do it yourself, but you want to invite him to kiss you. What do you do?
This strategy is powerful, and it’s backed by science. Because the way this works is you look down, and you look up at him with a slight smile on your face. Research has shown that when you make this motion, you look down and you look up at him with a little smile on his face. It positions you in a more feminine position. It makes you look even younger. When you’re in the feminine role, it ignites his masculine. The smile that invitation says, ‘Kiss me now!’ Disney has perfected this in their movies. Check it out!
13. Don’t Forget To Appreciate Him
When you’re having a conversation with a man, and he’s telling you a story, and you find yourself lost in thought and admiration. Your comment on something specific about him doesn’t have much to do with the story he’s telling you. Hence, the non sequitur, it shows is that you’re lost in thought admiring him. There’s something specific about him that you appreciate. They are complimenting. Here’s how you use this.
He’s telling you a story, and you might put your cheek in your palm, and you’re listening to the story. When he tells you the information, you give him a compliment about something you admire in him. You might say, “Do you know that your eyes sparkle when you’re sharing something you’re passionate about? I love that?” You might share something.
You may say, “I admire the passion you have for helping people. It’s such a rare thing these days.” You’re sharing something that you noticed about him. A quality that he has. It may or may not have anything to do with the story, but you are focused on that. Instead of the story, going on with your tale builds attraction in him. He will love being acknowledged by you.
14. Tell Him Funny Jokes
It can be a whole lot of fun. It is called the fake palm read. The fake palm read is not about reading his palms. You don’t want to look up palm reading and find out what line means or what you want to do. Ditch that knowledge and makeup something outrageous. The more outrageous it sounds, the more sort of off-the-wall each line can mean on his palm, the more ridiculous it is, funnier. Here’s how you pull this off.
You say to him, “You know that I can read your palm? and He says, “Oh! Let me see your palm. He’ll give you his palm, and then when you take his hand with your hand, and you drag your finger gently on the lines of his palm. That caress feels so good to a man. You start making stuff up about what each line means, and the more ridiculous, the more funnier.
15. Be Honest Withy Your Guy
You have a date with someone, express that you’re looking forward to seeing them. Be honest about that so on the day. If it’s the first day, text him and say I’m looking forward to meeting you tonight. Or if it’s your second or third date and you have a bit more of a bond by now, text him and say not going to lie.
I’m excited to see you tonight those moments of not only flirtation but warmth and sweetness as something that elevates your character. Now he realizes he’s going on a date with an authentic person, not someone trying to play hard-to-get, not someone who’s a game player. By the way, playing games just invites other game players. But he sees now that he’s with someone willing just to express themselves.
16. Be An Open Minded Woman
Make sure your hands are above the table. So hands are interpreted as a sign of honesty, of openness, of communication. This is why they make you raise your palms when you’re swearing an oath. You always want to have your hands above the table on a date. See how in this dating scene, Jermia’s hands are together and below the table. This shows that she’s a little withdrawn and not quite feeling as confident on the date.
Now she brings her first hand up. She looks a little better, and with both hands above the table, she seems much more confident and expressive. And don’t forget, having your hands above the table doesn’t mean you always have them together, blocking him off either. Keep them friendly and open, and the guy will feel that you’re open and receptive to him.
17. Build His Confidence Level
Palms down for confidence and strength. Palms up for openness and vulnerability. So what you do with your hands and how you hold your palms communicate different messages to the guy. Palms up can be a much more open and vulnerable state or a state of uncertainty.
Whereas if you put your palms down, you appear much more vital and confident. See how my girl seems to be seeking validation. Her palms are up; she wants a response from him instead of now; she turns them over, says it how it is, and looks a lot more confident and sure within herself.
Overall, you’re going to find a natural balance with this that works for you. You just want to make sure that what you’re communicating with your body is congruent with what you’re saying and what you’re feeling inside of you. So palms down will be more confident, whereas palms up if you want to make the flirting more intimate.
18. Send Him Picture Of Yourself
Send him a picture of yourself before you go out, and I don’t mean some lewd naked photo. I mean, when you get dressed up in your nice outfit to go out to that party, whether it’s a wonder woman outfit or just a sexy ketchup bottle. Because you know who says you have to be cliche. You could go as whatever you want.
You’re free to do whatever you want. Send him that picture, and then he’s going to look at his phone. And he’s going to go, oh my god, she’s going to be out all night looking this hot, and he’s thinking of you what you’re doing. You don’t have to be with a guy to be on his mind.
19. Take Him At Exciting Place
Present him with two tickets to a haunted house when you and he go into a situation where you’re both going to be scared. He gets to play the protector by guarding you and looking after you. And you get to make your favorite Scooby-DooDoo impression and jump into Shaggy’s arms.
What’s more, studies have shown that moments of heightened adrenaline connect to people. So, in conclusion, running away from a chainsaw-wielding clown might just be one of the most romantic moments you’ve ever had.
20. Send Surprise Gifts
Send him favorite candy and think about it. How sweet and adorable is it that he likes. You’ve decided to send it to him in a neat little box with a package.
Or you can give it to him in person either is fine. You also can provide him favorite flowers with your handwriting letters. But just that moment where he’s like it didn’t cost you much. It wasn’t even that much effort but the fact that you know him just a little bit is a beautiful moment. I think this one is awesome flirting tips for girls.
21. Talk About Favorite Things
Send him a movie trailer text. This is where you send in the link to a scary movie trailer with the message. I’m only watching this if you’re there to protect me. I don’t care how brave you are. Usually, showing that you want your man to wrap his arms around you and protect you during the scary parts is something that will make him melt.
Men are curious about discussing new or creative things. They feel boring when you talk as usual things. So talk about something new matters and make sure that he is engaging in it. If he likes football, then talk about his favorite team and give him the sports news that makes him happy and friendly.
22. Think About Relationship Outfit
It’s a little risque have a private outfit picked out especially for him. Let me make myself clear I’m not saying this for the guy you met last week. For the guy, you see, the guy that’s worth it, the guy who deserves it all of the usual caveats.
I want you to pick an outfit that is super sexy. You can make this as saucy as you like to put it in the bathroom at home. When the two of you get back, change out of your Catwoman outfit or whatever it is you’re in and take five minutes to change into your private outfit. When you emerge from the bathroom, he’ll realize that there was one outfit.
23. Be Comfortable With Him
When a girl’s confident enough to like come up close to you and be near you as they’re talking to you, when you have a crush on someone, and you’re walking to them naturally, you want to be a little bit closer to them. You would maybe like just talking to a friend.
And whenever I feel like someone isn’t afraid to have direct eye contact with me and maybe as close to me or even like accidentally bumps into me. It is a way that a flirting that’s always kind of like just caught me off guard a little bit. It almost makes me felt uncomfortable, but in the right way, it makes sense. So whenever our girl initiates that and does that on her own, I feel like guys like it.
24. Smiley Face
The next way girls flirt that guys love simple, but when they smile a lot, I feel it’s hard to flirt without smiling. Have you ever like to try to talk to someone you want? Be flirty and not smile like I guess you try to be all cool, but you still are smirking. If you’re taking that approach and just for me, smiling is just such a simple thing that just does wonder.
It’s like if I’m talking to someone I like, and she’s smiling the entire time. Or just laughing a lot like it’s a perfect feeling. It’s an effortless way to flirt, and also, if you happen to be someone who gets embarrassed when you’re only talking to someone you like or trying to flirt.
You feel like you can’t like sometimes being sorry makes you smile because you blush, and that’s like another cool thing. I talk about all the time, so just smiling, in general, is always a good thing when it comes to flirting.
25. Poke Him When He’s In Mood
When they know how to poke you, there’s the expression everyone loves a good poke. I think it’s true and I feel like the right amount of poke is a great way to flirt, like being able to get someone’s attention and be a little bit flirty.
But then like either play hard-to-get or just back off a little bit kind of like the whole like you’re trying to like to reel them. Let them go a little bit and then reel them in a little bit more, and you let them go a little bit more. I feel like there’s a right balance to find because no one likes too much of a poke and just being like, oh my god, I love you. We’ve been talking for two minutes. I feel like those are not useful approaches to have, so being able to poke the right amount is always a good sign.
26. Keep Looking Accidently
This one’s one of my favorites is when girls will accidentally do something flirty. I feel like this one is a little bit more physically oriented. I know that girls are guilty of this because there’s no way. This is always accidents, but there have been so many times in my life.
I’ll be talking to someone, and a girl will do the most subtle thing. And I don’t know if it’s like she’s trying to do it on purpose and acting like she didn’t. Or if it was an accident, whether it be like a wink or like she accidentally bumped into me.
I even asked girls at times in my life. She’ll be like, I don’t know. That’s the answer every girl ever has to that question, and then she likes does this weird. I’m talking about, and the truth is it does work. It’s a killer. I mean, the accidental flirting it drives you crazy because you don’t know if it was meant to be. It’s just great accidental flirting. It is a pretty stable way to flirt.
27. Do Together With Enjoyment
You have a connection with someone and have like an inside enjoy those forms. And then kind of like bantering around with that as your relationship continues. Now obviously, this could be so many different things.
But the truth is if you end up being a thing with someone, there’s going to be things that happen that only you two can understand. It is something good or bad or embarrassing. And as soon as that happens to be able to kind of use that as a running enjoys between the two of you. As you like to continue to be a thing or whatever it is you’re doing is a pleasure, and it’s like a cute way to flirt because only you two make it.
28. Focus On Your Looking & Personality
Here’s I discuss how to flirt so you can attract almost any man you want. You need to dress in a way that communicates femininity and attractiveness. Now I mean, I don’t care who the man is and don’t care how brilliant he is. I don’t care how much of a gentleman he is.
They see you before they hear you. so for him to be able to be attracted to you enough to come up to you, talk to you, learn more about you and see that you are the person he’s been waiting on his whole life.
He first has to be attracted to you. So the main thing that we have to do when we’re trying to attract masking energy. It is looking at how we dress. Do you dress in a way that’s going to inspire a man to look at you and be intrigued by you?
So are you going out all the time in sweats that are not going to attract him? He knows your personality and spirit. He’s in love with you, and then you start wearing sweats all the time. Before it in especially you’re trying to meet that man, you need a dress and clothes that are going to be fitted to your body.
Everybody’s body is different, so I always tell people I say to identify your body parts that are your best traits. If you know that you’ve got beautiful bosoms, don’t wear an outfit with when your girls will show in the right way.
If you know that you got sexy legs, the weird outfit where your legs can display correctly and if you are like me that you got some cake on your baby. I’m thinking than snicker honey when if you know you built like that, you need to make sure that you wear clothes that will emphasize your shapes.
29. Sexy Face Reaction
Let’s go back to the example I gave earlier you add a grocery store. You see a guy that you’re interested in, and then you catch him looking at you. Or you’re looking at him first regardless. When you look at him, don’t do what many of us do and look away real fast.
The reality is that he’s looking at you because you’re dressing nicely. He’s looking at you because he’s attracted to you. He’s looking at you because of the energy you’re giving off.
So when you look at him, one of the things that I’ve had to learn to do is give a sexy face reaction for three seconds at the minimum. Why do I say three seconds because I wanted to do it three times as long as I would generally do it? I forced myself to do it for at least three seconds. What I’m doing is I’m creating enough time for a connection to be built and creating enough time for him.
30. Touch His Knees While Talking
If you want to flirt one of the beneficial things, you need to be careful about touching him. When you’re talking to him, and he makes a joke that you think is funny, laugh but when you laugh, touch his arm very gently. You can do it like- oh, he was so funny!
We’re having a conversation, and we have a good enough rapport that I feel comfortable doing this. one thing I may One thingo is I touch his knee when I’m talking to him. You’re rubbing your hand on his knees and talking. Be careful when you touch on them. If you touch them too close to certain places, they’re going to get turned on, and when they get turned on, their mind shuts off.
So if you’re trying to flirt with them, especially and looking for your king, you’re looking for someone to be able to have a meaningful relationship. So the way you touch this focus on these key areas, knee or arm, when you touch them.
31. Be Engaging
What I’m talking about is actively listening to him when he talks. I don’t know if you figured this out yet, but masculine energy. Men love to hear the sound of their voice, and they love to believe that you like to listen to their voices. In a lot of cases, we do like to hear them talk.
We enjoy it, which is why we’re such good listeners most of the time. But some of you don’t do good with listening while talking to him. And you are so excited about the conversation that you’re cutting him off when he’s in the middle of talking.
If you were cutting off a man in conversation, you’re doing something wrong. do not cut him off because how you interpreted is that you’re just jumping in because you’re excited about talking. You do that with your friends, and they don’t care.
But they’re not the person you’re trying to date because they’re not the person you’re trying to flirt with. When you’re trying to flirt with the man, you have to make him feel like he’s valued. You just to make him feel like his words are valuable to you. You have to make him feel like he matters.
32. Make Him Feel Like A King
Don’t just compliment him on some basic stuff that everybody complements him. If he’s got a nice body, don’t be talking about it. Oh, your body looks so lovely. Do you go to the gym a lot? He’s got a nice car.
Don’t just compliment the car. Every chicken hand on earth compliments him on his car; that’s why none of them have landed him yet. You need to praise him on things that typically would go unnoticed. So let me say this, I’m not an amateur at this. I go above and beyond to identify unique items.
I’m trying to flirt with so that I can flirt in a very effective manner. So let me tell you one of my things I might do nothing. I’ve done this before. I might do this – I may go to his Instagram, and I may scroll back on that Instagram goes far back. And I’m trying to see whether any hobbies that he has that he doesn’t post about.
For example, maybe you someone likes to draw every now again perhaps he’s in a band. Perhaps he considers himself to be a musician on the side or whatever it may be. I’m searching for those things that are a part of his life. But that he may not talk about a whole lot, or you may not be posting about a whole lot. So that the next time I’m around him.
I can find a way just to bring it up just a little bit sprinkling that’s all be talking. So what were you going to tell me like – You are a fantastic painter. I love your painting. So be sincere, praise him for something that you do feel.
33. Give Him By Lovely Title
The next tip is to call him various sweet names or titless like – handsome, baby, mister, sir, etc. Call him by this title when you’re talking to him and say him in conversation. There is something about him hearing his title that comes across as very flirtatious. It comes across like you’re interested in him.
So let me give you an example. I’m talking to a guy, and we’re in the middle of a conversation. I’m commenting on something he said. I’m like mister James you are so funny. Why are you always so funny? Or hey funny man. You made an excellent point when you said it.
It pulls him in, and strategically it also pulls his attention. So if he owns out a little because sometimes we all zone out. It’s like what schoolteachers used to do when they were in school. It keeps them engaged, but it also makes them feel like you recognize him.
34. Keep Your Feminine Energy Strong
Men are most attracted to feminine energy. They love it when you walk in a room, and you walk with an air of confidence with positivity. Studies have proven that men are more attracted to people who walk with confidence and positivity, meaning that when your head is up to walk in the room, you have a smile on, and you’re inviting me.
You come across as positive, and you are more likely to get attention from the men in that room than someone who may be dressed beautifully. But she’s got her head down on the ground what she’s got well. She’s got a stank attitude that makes people feel like she’s not open or inviting of other people.
I tell people this when you walk into a room and that there are potential kings in that room. You make sure that the way you walk has your head your chin to be level with the ground.
It’s level with the ground, so you’re not walking with your head up looking hasta Devi nor you walking looking down at the bottom. You’re walking merely making sure that your chin is level with the ground, so you walk like that. It’s good for your posture. When you do that, you’re going to be the kind of woman where men will be like- oh my god, who is she.
35. Identify His Habits
The secret tip is to familiarize yourself with his likes and use it to your advantage. Now introducing yourself with a guy’s preferences is going to help you in your flirting. Let’s say you guys go out on a date. There won’t be any kind of awkward silences.
You’re always going to know what to say. You’re going to know how to sort of steer the conversation and what to talk about. What he’s going to respond well to, and there are a couple of different ways to do this. The first is just a kind of observation and just kind of paying attention you know what kind of clothes he is wearing. Does he have a band on his t-shirt?
There’s another way to do this, which is probably more up to date with today, and that’s Facebook. Facebook is an excellent way in general to just kind of figure out what somebody’s likes are, and I know somebody’s going to be like Facebook stalking.
It’s not stalking; stalking is when you like to go to somebody’s house, and you got the binoculars. And you like climb a tree that’s stalking to me not looking at somebody’s Facebook. Because he liked something on Facebook as he did it so that other people could see it. if you didn’t want anybody to know that you liked something on Facebook, and you wouldn’t have liked it on Facebook.
36. Talk With Passion
80% of a listener’s first impression of you has absolutely nothing to do with the words you say. It has to do with how you say it, so just be sure you’ve got a positive tone in your voice. When you talk, soften your eyebrows and weird because we usually don’t think about our facial expressions.
If I’m talking to somebody, I’m talking to them. I kind of just don’t look that friendly and approachable because of my eyebrows but let’s say I soften them. I kind of raised them a little bit, and that just I think it makes me look more friendly. I don’t know, but it just makes you look more approachable and a lot friendlier. It’s going to help you, and you’re flirting. If you look friendlier, that’s going to make you the ultimate flirter.
37. Don’t Be Always Available
Don’t mistake this for playing hard-to-get. What you’re doing is leaving him wanting more. If you’re available 24/7, then he always has access to you. But if you cut the phone conversation or the Skype conversation or wherever you talk to him on just a little bit short, then you’re going to add mystery to your life.
You’re going to leave him wanting more, and you’re going to kind of leave him thinking about you and waiting until you can talk to you the next time. So it’s a great way to sort of keep things fresh and exciting in your flirting lives. If you just talk all day, you can kind of get burnt out from that. So this is just a perfect tip overall.
38. Prioritize His Likes
You’re connecting what you like to what he wants. People are most receptive to other people who they feel have the same values in life. So I know there’s that whole stigma of opposites attract, but that could even be physical, that could be like a tall guy and a short girl. That’s not necessarily personality-wise.
For example, let’s say that there was a guy who loves animals. He’s got a cat, a dog, a hamster, and a bunny rabbit. So he loves animals. He will probably respond a lot better to a girl who likes animals rather than a girl who’s like, oh, I hate animals.
It was kind of a bad example because everybody wants animals, but you got my point. You know, values are things that are just very deep, like you’re family-oriented. It’s a value of your religion, and you don’t have to know all the same values as a guy.
You don’t want to replicate him. You don’t want to be the girl version of him, but you want some connection with your values. It’s going to help you with your flirting. And if he can sense that he has some of the same values and that’s amazing.
39. Give Feedback
When you’re listening to him talk, instead of saying ordinary things like yeah and just nodding your head, say something like, wow, that’s so cool. Or oh! I see what you mean, or oh, I can kind of understand. It’s going to kind of give a little bit of feedback, and at the same time, it’s going to show that you’re listening.
And it’s going to show that you’re attentive and paying attention to what he’s saying. this is a great way to kind of connect you to his conversation, and it’s going to show him that you’re listening to him.
You’re interested in what he has to say, and this is going to make him so much more comfortable with you. It’s a way to flirt. If you’re wrong in your eyelashes, you’re giving him feedback. It’s like it’s the ultimate flirting.
40. Do Respect Yourself
You have to maintain a standard and value yourself. When you believe that you are a woman deserving of love, you will act apart and attract that kind of man. You are the prize for practicing soft love, but as you can imagine practicing self-love or respect in a new intimate relationship.
It is often easier said than done. When we have strong romantic desires for another person, we often do things to win their minds. This is when the majority of relationship mistakes happen. Don’t be cheap because men dislike cheap and they want to win a girl’s heart. So keep a distance from your guy and make him jealous of you that drives him in your love.
You want to bring your best body language to the table. And if you struggle, you know a lot of people might call it the resting bitch face. Or you just don’t know how you are emoting when you go out and meet new people, which will be a critical component of this webinar. I can not wait to share some of these secrets that I’ve learned over the years of being a dating coach and being a professional speaker and thinking through how I communicate with my body language.
And then, finally, we have words. The actual terms are coming out of your mouth. I’m going to be teaching you some particular things that you can say and talk about when you’re going ahead and meeting new guys. That will help you be a little more playful and witty and position you as a high-value woman that he will not want to pass up.
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