35 Qualities Of A Good Wife: Hey friends, I’m here to help you know how to be a better wife to your husband. If you’ve been struggling in your relationship and aren’t like connecting, you’re going to want to check out the tips I got for you today because they are fantastic off the charts. Check it out.
How To Be Better Wife?
I’m getting close to four years, but I have to say day one of you becoming a wife you are already learning the tools of being a good wife. Learning about your husband, I remember literally like day one, or I guess the day after being married to Karen and already realizing some of his expectations that he had for me.
To fulfill in his life and understanding ways that I can better our relationship better our life together. So even though in the grand scheme of things, I mean Lord willing four years of marriage isn’t a very long time. I feel like I’ve learned a lot and Lord knows I’m still learning. I’m always learning about what it takes to be a good wife to your husband.
I see an impact in my marriage I do want to start more of to sit down talking wife series just sharing about what I’m going through what I’m doing for Karen and just stuff like that. Because like I said I’m always learning and there’s still stuff happening in my marriage and a lot of time I want to share it with a lot of people.
Usually I just kind of share it with some of my close friends or my sister. But here on this platform, I have tremendous ability, and I even would call this a huge blessing to share what I know to share what I’ve learned the hard way. I’m not a perfect wife, but I strive every single day to be the wife that Kieran needs me to be.
35 Qualities Of A Good Wife
I hope you guys like this article. Let me know what’s up with you down below. Let me know what you do tell me one thing you do for your husband that your husband appreciates whether he knows it or not. So we’re going to go ahead and get started!
1. Physical Affection
I remember growing up even being like four five and six and hanging out at like family functions or church functions or groups or whatever. I’d see a man and a woman and I would think of them like that and would have no idea they were married because they showed no signs of physical affection towards each other.
I would never see them even hug or hold hands or lean into each other also like sit beside each other. I encourage you as a wife that absolutely behind closed doors.
2. Touch Your Husband
I do think it’s essential to have an intimate physical relationship with your husband. But all the more so when you’re in public and when you’re with people. I’m not talking about like intense PDA because that’s uncomfortable for everybody. But I mean things like sitting beside your husband leaning into your husband holding, your husband’s hand touching, your husband.
It’s all significant guys are huge into physical touch. Most guys don’t realize how to take it in and work with it. But when you touch your husband in public, you’re not just touching him and making him feel good.
You’re showing everyone around that hey this is my husband, and I am crazy about him. You’re giving that guy tons of self-confidence there is nothing like being married to a very confident man. So I encourage you to embrace your husband in public.
3. Do Respect
I want to talk about respecting your husband, and this is a huge thing that is so key to an excellent marriage relationship. Guys need respect more than anything else.
They need connection more than love that’s how guys are that’s how they’re wired. So as wives as soon as we go the opposite direction and decide to not put our trust in them to see them as incapable of belittling them.
You’re going to find your husband being defeated and trust me you don’t want to be married to a defeated man. It is a horrible feeling that affects your kids if you have them, and obviously, it transforms him as a husband will make him go ahead.
He should have full confidence knowing my wife respects me, and she realizes who I am and my role as a husband-wife.
4. Be Confident
As a wife, we need to be our husband’s confidant, just like they are to be ours. Guys don’t spill their emotions very quickly. But that one time a year when your husband needs to talk to you or just vent or something’s been on his mind.
He’s just going crazy. Stop and listen to him and don’t say anything till he’s done. Listen and answer okay or further help him out. If you feel like he needs it and in that what he tells you is not to be shared amongst
your girlfriends or your mom or your other wife friends. He needs to know that his heart and what’s on his mind and his secrets are safe with you.
The more you have this attitude towards your husband pouring himself out and venting himself to you, the more he’ll be willing to do it and the more trust and security. He’ll put into you, and that is just a huge blessing and something inspiring for a wife to have in her husband.
5. Learn Love Language
Know what your husband’s love language and feed it. When I first got married to Karen, I knew that his love language was physical touch and closeness. I knew that mine wasn’t and it still to this day it’s not but if I withhold anything a physical touch and proximity with Karen. I’m not giving him what he needs. I’m depriving him of such a vast, enormous way to show him that I love him.
When I passed Karen, I touch Karen. If he’s sitting on the couch and I have time I’ll sit on the couch next to him. If we’re walking side by side holding Kieran or holding his hand, this makes the guy go crazy.
According to Chapman, the five ways to express and experience love called “love languages” are:
- Quality Time Spent.
- Words Of Affirmation.
- Acts Of Service.
- Receiving Gifts.
- Physical Touch.
I encourage you to find your husband’s love language and fuel it on an everyday basis on the other note.
6. Give Space
Your husband needs space, especially with kids. Sometimes Karen can come home and feel like oh there’s the stuff that needs to be done. Because kids are at his feet and I’m making dinner, and something happens with the kids. He needs to step in when you can give your husband space.
When you feel like he needs it, you should know your husband needs space right now. Give him space, don’t suffocate him. I’ve learned with Kieran when he comes home if you need a shower here go ahead and shower. Kieran and I know what Saturday morning go ahead.
He works all the time too, and he needs some space to think about nothing which a lot of guys do organize his thoughts or relax. So give your guys some space. It’s not a bad thing if they desire that and don’t be offended
if they do. Because I know a lot of time I need my space. it’s healthy, and it’s not a bad thing,
7. Don’t Stop Giving
There are always points in a marriage where you feel like you’re giving more or this person is giving less never. Firstly, never compare what one person is giving versus the other focus on yourself. As wives, most of us are homemakers.
I’m going like you’re not pulling your weight or something like that. That’s wrong, and my heart is in the wrong place. Now I don’t think it’s good for husbands to be lazy.
I think they need to realize there’s a need here let me help. But give them the ability to see the need and to help instead of you always kind of carrying you’re doing less than me.
I also remember husbands are learning just like us. But I encourage you instead of looking at your partner and going the only gift 50%, and they give 20%, they flip and give 5%. Look at yourself and provide everything you can absolutely.
8. Never Stop Learning
Never think that you’ve got your husband figured out and that’s it. You’re set for the rest of your life. I still have my parents coming over and be like you would never guess what your mom did or like my mom.
I can, you see her your dad, and they’re still learning about each other after being married for 30-plus years. Make your husband an ongoing research assignment. That way, you can cater to him to his needs, and it’s also just enjoyable.
There are so many things that I learn about Kyra. I’m like you have got to be kidding me like how could I not know whether it’s something fundamental. What you’re going to find out and that is just so fun in a marriage.
9. Be Interesting
I encourage you as a wife to be interesting. I know that’s kind of peculiar. But when Kiran looks at me, it’s just like she’s Sarah Kieran looks at me as someone exciting.
He wants to spend time with me, and he wants to ask me questions. He’s kind of always taken me on as a research assignment which is this woman that I’ve married.
I like being attractive to Kieran because it makes our relationship just fun. Being beautiful can cover many things. Keep changing things up to be interesting when your husband comes home.
Make your home an exciting place to come home. I can’t say I’m the most interesting person and the work of but Karen thinks I’m attractive. I have to work on it sometimes I do feel like I get into like this weird rut.
So I would say this is very pivotal or something significant. But being attracted to your husband make some marriage just exciting and fun.
10. Accept Help
When does he ask do you need help with this? Can I help you with this? 90% of the time I say yes please. even if I don’t need it. Something beautiful about marriage is another person willing to help another person. Another person is sacrificing for another person.
So even when I don’t need Karen’s help, I will still say yes if you can help me sweet. Because nine times out of 10 it will make my life easier. I never want to get to that point where I’ve said no to him wanting to help me.
Karen is not an act of service type of guy. Think he does in a little bit of away. He likes doing certain things for me that is helpful. But I wouldn’t say he’s vast into that type of a love language. But he still feels somewhat defeated or little when I have a million things going on. He says Sarah let me help you. I want to show you that I love you. Let me help you.
I do need Karen’s help, and if I say no, I’m also much too confident in myself. So accept your husband’s help. I’m struggling with this, and I know you’re brilliant.
Go ahead and get into this. A lot of the time, the husband will want to do that for you. When they do it, show appreciation out the wazoo praise your husband. When he helps you and show him affection too, and that would give him more of a drive to help you more in the future.
11. Don’t Compare
It is enormous tons of guys and girls but a lot of husbands already kind of deal with that self-confidence. I wish you wore outfits like that instead of like the usual clothes you wear! Why do you have to act like that like my dad never worked, like that with my mom?
Don’t say those things? Your husband doesn’t need you to compare him to anybody anything any fictional character. Your husband desires your praise. I’m sure you have to dig deep to find something to compliment your husband.
I encourage you to dig so deep and find something your husband doesn’t want you to compare him to other people.
Your husband wants your affirmation and your full confidence and desire to be just for him. Because as soon as you start comparing him to all these other things he’s going. Why are you looking at all these other things?
Why are you putting so much attention to these other things? You forget about me guys are softies too. Guys aren’t these like crazy rough and tough people. They need affection, and they need to be treated a certain way also.
When you start comparing your husband to other things or people again, they feel defeated, and they feel belittled. And that’s another huge part of the whole respecting your husband. You are sure to have such a happier husband in marriage if instead of focusing on all the things.
12. Never Speak Badly
Never speak badly about your sweetheart. Now, this is an easy one to violate because sometimes you don’t feel all that great about yourself. And you might say something like, “I’m so…” Whatever.
Okay, that doesn’t affect just you. Because your husband who loves you, you’re his sweetheart and you’re bad-mouthing her, that ticks guys off quicker than about anything that I know. And I know for me it’s hard for me to see my sweet being down.
13. Enjoy Every Moment
Enjoy what’s happening now. It’s so easy for all of us to get sucked into the future and what’s going to happen or the past and what’s already happened. And those spaces are fraught with anxiety on the future side and depression or shame on the past side.
Stay in the now and be fully present.
It is crucial for moms and wives because the greatest gift that you can give to your husband or your children is to be fully present with them.
14. Make Him Superman
Please give him a Superman cape. Okay, not literally you don’t go down to the costume shop and get him a Superman cape. But use that as a little analogy.
I got to hear Dr Scott Holtzman talk, and he’s done a lot of research on marital relations, and what men want and what women want and those are always generalizations. But I think he’s onto something with this.
For men, typically what they want in a relationship is to feel valued. Think that they’re the hero, the superman. And that your life is better because he’s in it. That’s what I mean by buying him a Superman cape.
Let him know that your experience is better because he’s in it. It has a magical effect, and I think you’re going to like what you see.
15. Give Value
There is some divine power in gratitude. I’m talking about how to be a better wife and mother. You already feel the appreciation. Express it.
Let your kids know that you appreciate them for the good things that they’re doing. Especially with our kids because it’s effortless to identify what they need to do better.
And husbands are sensitive to this as well. Sometimes even though you’re right, pointing out what he could do better has him feeling criticized.
Expressing appreciation puts that Superman cape back around his neck and elevates him to a place where he’s more likely to make improvements. And that’s a little bit of a paradox. But think about it.
16. Control Online Addiction
I mean kind of what we were talking about earlier about being fully present. One of the biggest distractors from an existing relationship is an electronic device: your phone, your tablet.
We have these smartphones that keep us continuously connected. And we have a FOMO. Do you know what FOMO is? Fear Of Missing Out. F-O-M-O.
You get a FOMO because you’re afraid that you might miss something on your social media feed. You know that checking your social media feed is kind of like going to the refrigerator.
Repeatedly, hoping that there’s something new in there and there never is. So let’s just put down the device. Take conscious control over this because our habits sometimes have us pulling that device out at times when we could be connecting with those who are closest to us.
I’m not saying you have to stay away from it completely. But be aware of this over the next few days and see what happens.
17. Make Eye Contact
I mean to connect, physically, visually with the people you love. Touch them, get eye contact. Be fully present with them. It will do wonders to improve your relationships to make an effort to connect. So, try a few things.
Like when you’re walking past your teenage son, reach out and touch him on the shoulder as you pass by. Try this with your husband. It’ll work even better with him.
Make eye contact as you’re talking to people. So that you’re not like the lights are on but nobody’s home. You’re engaged, you’re there. That’s powerful.
18. Give Time For Yourself
Time is a weird thing. We all have a limited supply. It comes down basically to 24 hours that repeats every day. You don’t get anymore, and you don’t get any less. Your time will be consumed with all kinds of things.
For you to make time for yourself means that you designate a few of those 24 hours to do something that lifts and enrich you. It is a gift that you can give to those who love you as well.
Because when you’re taking care of yourself, you’re able to help take care of others. Make time for yourself. In that time that you’re making for yourself, take care of yourself. And take full responsibility for your emotional life also.
For you to rely on or depend on someone else for your happiness creates a drain for them and anxiety for you. You are responsible for your pleasure. Take care of yourself.
19. Spend Quality Time
Make time for them. I already talked to you about making time for yourself and taking care of yourself. It puts you in a position to show up for the people that you love more powerfully. Make time for them. You’ve got so much on your list. You’ll have to designate sometime specifically.
If you’ve got multiple children, make time for each one of them. Individually. And don’t forget, hubby in this. He needs a little maintenance as well. So, make time for him too. It is a lot easier to do when you’re already taking care of yourself and making time for you. So, don’t skip that part.
20. Positive Attitude
I know big surprise from Dr Paul. Smile and be positive. Your positive energy will not only enhance your life and cause you to have more joy, but it will be a commanding presence and power for all of those around you for everyone who loves you and appreciates you for the good woman that you are.
I was almost hesitant to write this article because I don’t know, I think you’re already awesome.
Be positive and always inspire your life partner. It helps you to create a strong bond and make your family happy. Negative attitude always spoils relation and mind. So stay away from negative thought and be positive.
21. Give First Priority
We may think that we’re making out has not our number-one priority. He may not feel that way you have to be careful and make sure that our husband.
He’s our number one priority then he feels like and so prioritizes things you know in your life to make sure that your husband is your number one priority.
You know God is our top priority, but after God, your husband should be in a more priority, then your children. Then your family and all of those things that follow forth. But your husband should always be first.
22. Forgive Quickly
It’s so important that we forgive quickly and that we don’t hold grudges and that we don’t take things into the next day. Those things can destroy your marriage and ruin you and your husband’s bond.
Actually, most of the time, our ego make ourself rude and selfish. We think this makes us small and priceless, but I suppose you might be wrong.
If you forgive your husband, then he feels guilty and shame. He can understand his fault and feel sympathy for you.
23. Praise Him
We praise our husbands because when we criticize and we’ll be the neck that makes them feel like they’re not good enough. That’s hard on anybody and especially men when they feel like they can’t please you.
So praise your husband and celebrate your husband instead of criticizing.
If you think that praise makes him lazy and moody, then you guess wrong. Your appreciation makes your husband active, that helps to do more and hard work. So inspire him, praise him at any time.
24. Treat Yourself Like A Queen
It is so important. Ladies, we’ve got to take care of ourselves and when I say take care of yourself and treat yourself like a queen.
I mean look like a queen act like a queen so that all that goes for having excellent hygiene should be common sense to people. But unfortunately, they aren’t so.
We must take care of ourselves. Every day make sure that you smell good, make sure you know that you wear clean clothes, and make sure that you treat yourself like a queen. So it would help if you weren’t exposing yourself to other people.
I won’t wear outside of the house because I don’t want to disrespect my husband. I want to be the sexiest woman that he sees every day and the most beautiful woman that he sees every day. So treat yourself like a queen.
25. Serve Food
We should serve our husband. Don’t just cook for your husband; you need to serve food to the husband. I always help my husband his food.
I make sure that he has everything. He needs all his utensils if he needs any you know toppings or particular condiments for his food.
Make sure he has his drink his napkins and everything. Say, honey is there anything else that you need. Always make sure that you serve him so that he feels like a king.
26. Be Grateful
It is so important that we don’t just go off on the tangent and complain every day and talk about what we don’t have and what’s not done.
Be grateful for what you have with your husband, be grateful which you all have established together, for your family and joy.
If you compare your family with others, then you can never find happiness and satisfaction. It also makes depression, anxiety and sadness. So be happy with your family and friends.
27. Be Intimate
Intimacy is more than one thing. So when I say the intimate I mean in all areas around intimacy is not just sex. That is a form of affection, but you know we should be friendly with our husbands in our communication.
Your husband should feel like you are his wife and not one of his homeboys. Men like the touchy women, and it’s a hormonal effect. When you touch or hug your husband, then he feels exciting because of his sexual and mind hormone. We forget most of the time in a day, but we remember the intimate moments and memory.
28. Love Yourself
If you want to connect with your husband, you have to love yourself first. I have been in a place in my life where I didn’t like me. I didn’t want my body, and I didn’t like this and I was not too fond of that. And I was so critical of me like I honestly was to the point where I could say I hated myself.
Twelve years ago, I was in the wrong place. Hugely overweight, very low self-esteem. And my life was all about me. I was so focused on me, and I got to the point where I didn’t like me, and when I didn’t like me, I kind of like built up this wall around myself, and I didn’t let anyone. And because I didn’t like me.
If I didn’t love me, I couldn’t feel anyone else’s love. So, why would my husband want to give me love because I wasn’t receiving it? I was like totally rejecting his love. And he felt that from me and because I denied my love for myself, I was rejecting his love from me, I couldn’t connect. I couldn’t love him, and I couldn’t feel him loved me.
I start liking you. Because when you want you, wow! Your relationship will explode. Because you’ll build the capacity to desire love. And when you can love yourself, you’ll have the ability to connect and love your
husband in a way you’ve never done before. So, love yourself first.
29. Be A Mind Reader
They have their point of view. And you’re going to find this out in multiple ways. I just had experienced only a couple of days ago. Where my husband and I had my point of view, he had his point of view about the same situation. It was like a black and white difference.
I saw my way, he saw his way, and I like thinking you know, in the situation, what happened. I was like expecting him to apologize to me because I couldn’t believe what happened. And guess what? He explained his side of the story, and he was expecting an apology from me.
And I was like, “Are you kidding me? I’m not apologizing to you. You owe me an apology.” But the crazy thing it was just because we had two different points of view. So, at that moment, what I did is I shut my mouth. And I listened. I just listened. It was tough to like to bite my tongue. And shove my lips because I wanted to express myself in that situation.
30. Be A Best Friend
How to make your husband want you all the time? I wanted to share it with him. I’m afraid that’s not right. What you’re thinking is wrong. It is what happened. But I did it. I listened to his point of view, and when he was done sharing with his position hit with its sharing with me, his point of view. I still disagreed with it.
But it helped me to understand. And once I had realized, then I realized you know what we both have a different point of view, and that’s okay.
It helped me to connect with him. And it didn’t you know, in the past it would have like ultimately pushed us apart. Because I would have opened my big mouth, I would have said what I wanted to say and then we would have argued. And then we wouldn’t have talked for like a day or a week or something.
Suppose you’ve ever been there before. But this time, I shut my mouth, and I listened. And I recognized he has a point of view that I deserve to hear or he deserves to have me attend. And even though I may not have agreed with it, I was willing to open my mind to know that he has his point of view and that’s okay.
31. Be A Motivational Speaker
You can begin doing is encouraging your husband lifting him in affirming him. Take time to think about things that you appreciate about your husband.
You’re having a hard time take that time and write down something that you appreciate about him. It could be how he is affectionate. It could be how he provides, and it could be how he is with your guys as kids or other kids?
You can write a note and place it somewhere where he will find it later. You can tell him verbally in person and try not to text. It makes something unique, but not only will affirming him boost up your self-esteem and make him confident. Give him more confidence to do better in his role.
The more we focus on what they do, it does for us, the more happy. We’re going to be in our relationship happiness, and appreciation is going to boost them up and help to do more things. Because they don’t feel like they’re regularly doing something wrong and they can never get it right. So focusing on the positive creates this significant momentum other things continually improving.
32. Be A Supporter
You’re boosting him up and making him feel like he can do the right thing. He’s doing a good job, and it’s going to encourage him to keep making those habits and probably help him to be growing and doing more loving things for you.
You can be affirming the husband things that he does for you and letting him know that he is loved and cared. So that’s something super simple that you can start improving on today.
Make sure that you are affirming your husband throughout the day and make it a goal for the next 30 days to compliment your husband on something at least once a day.
See how that changes his attitude? It’s going to put some pep in his step, and it’s going to make him feel so loved, and I wouldn’t be surprised if just by the natural reaction.
You are also showed appreciation more as well. It’s a natural reaction when someone’s complimenting you and making you feel also uplifted to make them feel uplifted. It makes you feel loved by them, and that makes you super appreciative of that person because they are boosting your experience, so that’s a super simple way that you can it be a better wife.
33. Good Conversation
If your husband likes to fish then try to show some interest in that and try to offer to go fishing with him sometimes and just be engaged. If your husband wants to talk politics, then try it to brush up on that knowing kind of what’s happening.
So you can participate in the conversation with him and besides hobbies. When your husband comes to you to talk to you and ready to ask questions, then don’t just sidestep the conversation. It is super easy to do. I know that way, and I’m like busy sometimes doing.
I’m doing to talk, and it’s super easy for me to want to say okay to whatever he said. And not fully engage in respond in conversation, but that leads to your husband feeling rejected in like he won’t want to come to you. He feels shot down even though your intention or my intention at the moment isn’t necessarily to shut him down.
It’s to be productive in what I was doing but taking the time to step backstop what you’re doing and prioritize your relationship over household work or hobbies or whatever you’re doing is super important.
It makes your husband feel so loved, and he’ll want to talk to you more, and you want your husband to want to talk to you and have fun with you and do things with you. Because that’s companionship and men, need companionship and someone to have fun with, and you want that to be you not just his guy friends.
34. Be A Caring Partner
How to keep your husband interested in you? My special tip on how to be a better wife is to make lunchbox notes. These are just quick and easy, and I write a letter, and I put it in Jake’s lunch, and he opens it up, and it’s just surprising and feels the love.
Send your husband surprise food. So I do this every so often, but I make sure that it’s on with my money since we do have a budget and this is an efficient way to show your husband that you love him. Because men love food, especially for my husband, who works tough long days, this is an excellent pick-me-up for him to have a surprise lunch.
35. Regular Kiss & Call
My best tip on how to be a perfect wife is to greet your husband at the door. I am sure to be there ready with a hug a kiss and excited hello and tell him that I miss him and I’m so happy to see him. It is the best quality of a good wife.
If you do it every day, then I guarantee you that your relationship never stops. You can be the best couple, and other couples feel jealousy to you.
If you forget to do it, then you can call your husband and tell him that you miss him. Every husband and wife should call his/her partner at the office or free time. It makes a caring moment and healthy bond.
Bonus Tip: Have A Clean Bedroom
So I know not many of us might think about this one but it’s just been beneficial and vital to us to have a clean bedroom that initiates bedroom things. It doesn’t make you feel all cluttered, and you know things everywhere. It makes you only be able to focus on bedroom things.
Please make sure that our home is somewhere where my husband wants to be and is filled with a few of the things that he likes, and I intentionally check my attitude before he comes home as well when he gets home from her wherever he is. I want to make sure that I am coming across as endearing and pleasant and loving in the way that I both talk and act in the home.
I hope you will follow these qualities of a good wife. If you have any questions, then feel free to ask me anytime.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do you deal with a difficult husband?
At first, Be patient before you’re handling the difficult husband. If your husband is a difficult person, then I’m sure that he’s a good man & has many weaknesses. If you can identify these weaknesses, then it’s effortless to hack his mind.
Now, I’m telling 5 ideas to maintain your difficult husband:
1 – Don’t repeat any matter or things because a difficult man can not tolerate this.
2 – Treat him like a baby. I think difficult men are like a baby, and they like care. So take care of him & praise him all time.
3 – You know that problematic people are doubtful. So, keep a distance from your friends & social media.
4 – Smile when you look at your husband and give him some surprise gifts that he likes.
5 – Be quick to say, “I’m sorry honey” whenever you offend with your husband, insist on his forgiveness, appreciate and kiss him when he does.
How to handle husband cheating?
If you think that your husband cheats you, then make sure that you are 100% right. Most of the family and relationships are breaking for unnecessary doubt! So make it clear.
When you are sure about that, then you can follow these 5 advice.
1 – Give him a proper time & perfect physical relation. Most of the men feel a lack of it after marriage.
2 – Give him priority & love that he can’t eager to cheat you.
3 – Take care of his mental & physical condition.
4 – Try to different get-up yourself & make a fantasy look because men like it so much. Men like diversity, so do the same but make a difference.
5 – Be romantic & intimate with your husband. Always try to keep your husband’s mind fresh & cool.
How to handle husband anger?
Most of the women think that controlling an angry husband is so difficult. Do you know that angry people are soft minded?
You can manage your husband very easily by following these five formulas.
1 – Don’t challenge or hurt him.
2 – You can call him by sweet name.
For Example: Honey, Sweety, Hi Handsome, etc.
3 – Be calm or silent when he’s angry. It’s essential!
4 – Respect him and his family members.
5 – Praise him & put a love note in his lunch box.
How to control husband?
It’s a funny question. Why are you want to control your husband? You think that maintaining a husband is very necessary! I think you are wrong! You can not control any person like a husband or baby. You can prevent them from only a few moments in front of you. Most of the divorce occurs for controlling issues. When you try to hold him, then you look like a Hitler or rude.
Instead of controlling your husband, you should make a friendship with him. If you make an excellent friendship with him, then it’s automatically under control of you. For these, you can follow these 5 ways:
1 – Play game with your husband like pillow game, racing competition, fun game, etc. You treat him like a best friend.
2 – Give him some space that he can identify himself alone and feel your existence.
3 – Men like foods. So please make a different recipe and give him a surprise with it.
4 – Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband & hug him regularly.
5 – Tell him what he wants to do now and do whatever he wants. It’s a hidden secret to control him.
Don’t be a rude or difficult woman. Men are very straightforward and egotistical. So, understand your husband’s mind and do whatever he wants. It’s enough to keep you both.
So, understanding that your husband has his point of view will help you to connect. It’s going to help you to be a better wife. And you’re going to feel better, and you’re going to have that loving relationship that you so want.
We discuss some ways that you can instantly be a better wife. These are super practical things that you can start implementing right now that’s going to boost up your husband and help maintain a healthy marriage relationship.
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Wish you a happy married life. Stay with your husband and family. Cheers!
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